In a rare, refreshingly mature sit-down that’s melting hearts across the Dancing With the Stars fandom, former pro Sasha Farber has broken his silence on his ex-wife Emma Slater‘s blossoming romance with fellow dancer Alan Bersten – declaring he wishes the couple “nothing but the best” and insisting there’s zero drama or awkwardness despite sharing the ballroom!

The 41-year-old dance veteran, who was married to Slater for five years before their amicable 2023 split, got candid during a candid appearance on Gia Giudice’s iHeartRadio podcast Casual Chaos on Monday, January 19, 2026. In the emotional chat – titled “One Step Closer to DWTS” – Farber spilled behind-the-scenes secrets from the hit ABC show while addressing the elephant in the room: watching his ex move on with a close colleague in the tight-knit DWTS family.

“Listen, things don’t always work out. That’s life, unfortunately,” Farber reflected thoughtfully. “And when you’re with someone for so many years, it becomes family whether you’re with them or you’re not.” He continued: “And at the end of the day, I want her to be happy. And I wish them nothing but the best. And it’s amazing. Good luck.”

The wholesome message comes amid months of speculation and PDA-filled moments between Slater, 36, and Bersten, who hard-launched their relationship with a steamy onstage kiss during the DWTS live tour in April 2025. The couple has since been inseparable – sharing flirty social media posts, celebrating each other’s DWTS season 34 achievements (Bersten made the finale!), and shutting down any whispers of backstage tension.

Fans are praising Farber’s grace as “peak maturity” – especially in an industry rife with messy ex drama. Social media exploded with reactions: “Sasha Farber just set the bar for healthy co-parenting… wait, ex-spousing? Love this!” one viral comment read. Another: “No shade, no pettiness – just pure class. DWTS fam goals!”

Rewind to the Romance Timeline: From Wedding Bells to Separate Paths

Sasha and Emma’s love story was straight out of a fairy-tale ballroom. The pair started dating in the early 2010s after meeting through the DWTS world, tying the knot in a romantic 2018 ceremony surrounded by their dance family. They were DWTS power couple goals – supporting each other through grueling rehearsals, tour chaos, and the spotlight’s glare.

But in January 2023, they announced their split after nearly a decade together. The statement was classy and mutual: “After a lot of thought and consideration, we have decided to end our marriage. We remain very close friends and will always have love and respect for one another.” No scandals, no public jabs – just two people growing in different directions.

Fast-forward to 2025: Emma found love again with Alan Bersten, a fellow pro known for his charm and killer routines. Their chemistry was undeniable during season 34 prep and tour stops, culminating in that headline-making kiss that confirmed what fans had suspected for months. Emma glowed in behind-the-scenes snaps, captioning PDA pics with hearts and tributes like “My boyfriend is a finalist. Again. 🥹🥹🥹🥹” after Bersten’s strong showing.

Sasha? He’s been nothing but supportive. Back in October 2025, during a TikTok Live, he shut down awkwardness rumors: “Definitely not awkward… I’m really happy for her and Alan and I wish them nothing but the best.” He even left a sweet “Congrats guys 👏” comment on Emma’s Instagram tribute to Alan’s finale run in November.

Now, in the Casual Chaos interview, he doubled down on the positivity while getting real about post-divorce life in the DWTS bubble.

Behind-the-Scenes Revelations: The Real Scoop from the Ballroom

Beyond the ex-talk, Farber dished juicy insights into the Dancing With the Stars machine. He opened up about the intense rehearsals, the emotional rollercoaster of partnering with celebs, and how the show’s family vibe helps everyone navigate personal highs and lows.

He praised the current pros (including Emma and Alan) for keeping the energy high amid grueling schedules: “You thank each other for your incredible time you had together—because the time that we did have was amazing—and you move on, and you wish the other person nothing but the best.”

The interview also touched on Farber’s own journey post-divorce – staying close with Emma as friends, navigating the professional overlap, and finding peace in letting go. “We are still close… We are friends,” he reiterated in related chats. When pressed about his dynamic with Bersten, Sasha kept it light: “We are not not friends” – a cheeky way of saying things are cordial in the ballroom.

Fans loved the honesty: “Sasha spilling tea without spilling blood – this is how adults handle breakups!” one commenter wrote. Another: “Emma and Alan seem so happy, and Sasha’s support makes the whole DWTS family even more wholesome.”

The Bigger Picture: Why This Matters in the DWTS World

In a reality TV landscape full of ex-spouse shade and messy love triangles, Sasha Farber’s approach stands out. He’s not hiding hurt or playing victim – he’s choosing happiness for everyone involved. Emma and Alan, meanwhile, have addressed their own rumors head-on, with Emma telling podcasts the “toxic energy” whispers were “not further from the truth.”

The trio continues to thrive professionally: Season 34 wrapped with massive ratings (thanks to stars like Robert Irwin’s win), the live tour is selling out, and the pros remain tight-knit. Sasha, though no longer competing regularly, stays connected through friendships and occasional appearances.

This Casual Chaos moment feels like closure for fans who’ve followed the saga. Sasha’s well-wishes aren’t just polite – they’re genuine, a testament to the deep bond forged over years of sweat, sequins, and shared dreams.

As one insider put it: “The DWTS ballroom is small – everyone sees everything. But when people handle things with this much class, it makes the whole show feel even more magical.”

Sasha Farber isn’t just wishing Emma and Alan the best – he’s living it. In the dance of life, sometimes the most beautiful step is stepping aside with grace. And right now, the entire DWTS family is applauding.