André Rieu: ‘My parents were afraid of me’
André Rieu has opened up about his difficult childhood, revealing that he believes his parents were “afraid” of him and struggled to understand his personality.
The world-famous Dutch violinist and conductor, now 76, reflected on his upbringing in a recent interview, describing his parents as strict and emotionally distant. Rieu said he was one of six children and began playing the violin when he was just five years old.
Rieu’s father, André Rieu Sr, was a conductor, and the young musician spent years working within his father’s orchestra. He later described his father as a difficult and demanding figure who influenced his decision to become a very different kind of leader.
Looking back, Rieu believes his parents struggled particularly with his naturally happy personality. He said he now thinks they “couldn’t cope” with him being the way he was and even suggested that they may have been jealous of his happiness.
The violinist explained that he did not fully understand the situation as a child. It was only later in life, after speaking with his siblings, that he began to see his childhood in a different light.

Despite those difficult experiences, Rieu believes they ultimately influenced the person he became. His own approach to family and parenting was deliberately different from the way he had been raised.
He has also credited love with transforming his life. Rieu met his wife, Marjorie, when they were young and later described falling in love with her as a moment when “the whole world opened” for him.
Today, Rieu is one of the world’s most successful classical performers, having built the Johann Strauss Orchestra into a hugely popular international act.
Rather than allowing his difficult childhood to define him, he has channelled his experiences into a career focused on bringing happiness to audiences around the world.
For Rieu, music became much more than a profession. It became a way of expressing the warmth and affection he felt were missing during his childhood — and ultimately helped him build the joyful life he had always wanted.